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Q & A - WITH RABBI RISKIN

Question: During a year of mourning for the death of a parent, am I permitted to listen to the radio and to watch television? Am I permitted, on Shabbat, to go to a 'kiddush' or to accept an invitation to a Shabbat meal?

Answer: According to my Rabbi and teacher, Rav Yosef Dov Soloveitchik ztz"l, the prohibition during the year of mourning concerns not the actual listening to music but rather participation in a "joyous gathering" - meaning, a social occasion with company, food, music etc. This being the case, there is no problem with listening to the radio or watching television in one's house, even to a music program. But this apparently lenient approach also has its stricter corollary: a social gathering, even without music - such as a picnic, etc. - would be forbidden by Rav Soloveitchik. Obviously, I rule the same way.

Concerning Shabbat, the halakha is slightly different, since there is no public display of mourning on Shabbat (to the extent that the Vilna Gaon rules that one should not change one's regular place in the synagogue on Shabbat during one's period of mourning, since this would represent a public show of mourning). It is permitted to 
attend a 'kiddush' so long as the host would be aware of your absence, and since he would attribute it to your state of mourning, you should appear there. The same applies to an invitation to a Shabbat meal. If you do not wish to accept the invitation you must explain that you are not refusing because of your state of mourning.

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