Question: Is it permitted to reprimand a fellow davener who
is chatting during davening, even though it seems that the reprimand
may make more noise than the chatting?
Answer: Yes. Davening is not the time for chatting. It is
very difficult for one to pray properly while his neighbor is chatting and
he who chats during tefilah is in fact stealing from his neighbor the
opportunity for prayer with proper kavanah. We are in shul in order
to pray to Hashem and not to chat with our neighbors. It would be
appropriate to invite friends to a kiddush at home or donate a
kiddush at the shul in order to facilitate chatting after shul.
In any case, if speaking during tefillah is absolutely necessary, it
may be done at Kriyat HaTorah in between Aliyot, but never
during Birchat HaTorah, Kriyat HaTorah and of course never
during the Tefilah itself.